grrrrrr

i get so tired of their opinions that they feel they have to cram down my throat. they offer to do something but then you never hear the end of it because they want to make sure that you appreciate that they did it for you and you should be kissing their feet in gratitude. my view is things dont matter as much as people money is not the end all be all of life and that u have to work yourself to death to get as much money as you can
 but then they have to give opinion on how you should spend the money but no matter he will always have more than me. when I make as much or more he gets upset and trys to cut me down and show that me and what i do is nothing and will never be as good as him. the last 2 days have been busy for him, I am very allergic to poison ivy and along my fence there must be a lot of it because when i mow the grass i get it and i can get it off the dogs or cats that get into it. for years i have tried to get him to get ride of it but he always forgets-and i will not ask more than once, i figure if you dont do it when i ask then you must not want to do it- the only way i know to get rid of it without touching it was to use plant killer, but the man that lives on the other side of the fence has plants all alone the fence and i dont want to harm his greenery. this past year he passed away and before someone else moves in i decided i could kill the ivy before it becomes effective-blooming whatever-since we have been having hot days i have been doing the work in the early morning and since i have to have all skin covered so i dont get it but It gets hot with all the clothes, so i have been working on it several days because the simple job has turned into a bigger clean up than just weed killing in one area--anyway-I have gotten the ivy rash on my face and arm, and its all blistered so i will have to go to Dr on Monday.I went to his house yesterday and when he saw the blisters and I told him what i had been doing----he then has to tell me that i am obviously doing it wrong blah blah blah--because of course i am not smart enough to do it right. then my oldest sold the second car because it was old and kept having some expensive repairs, and since they were not driving it he was complaining that it sitting is doing more damage, blah blah blah.so they sold the car but she does not tell them anything- so i had to hear him go on about all the mistakes they must have made in the sale because the piece of junk, now was a good car and should have been kept because there was nothing wrong with it. blah blah blah.